Love is a bond that needs to be fed and nourished just like a beautiful flower in your garden. In order for that beautiful flower to bloom, grow, and thrive you must tend to your garden regularly. A break up can cause great stress, strain, and frustration if you allow it. I have had relationships go sour but it is my knowing that they ended because I didn’t tend to my garden. You may be thinking I want to get back at my ex. Now I’m not talking about intending harm to your ex in any shape, form or fashion. You must be the change you want to see. I am here to offer you a little guidance with 5 tips to get your ex back. They will only be of service to though only if you use them.
1 – Show your strength. It is imperative that you radiate a vibe of non neediness. Are you begging your ex? Are you clinging to your ex? Are you radiating the vibe of neediness? You must move from desperation to joy, but it must be done in moderation. Feel better little by little and regain the power you have always had. Your ex will start to notice something in you when you release attachment.
2 – Keep communication scarce. “How can I get back with my ex”, you may ask that because cutting communication seems counterproductive. If you want to rekindle your love a break will provide time to evaluate. You can clear your mind and use the time to refocus. It can give your ex the opportunity to realize what a diamond in the rough you are.
3 – Turn into a gymnast. I’m not telling you to learn how to do splits or jumping on a high horse. I am saying “Be Flexible”, and stop making so many demands and start to go more with the flow. Don’t tell your ex be here to pick up your stuff tomorrow! and if you live together don’t tell her to move out. Become a Listener and more empathetic, when your ex sees you like this she will start to feel more comfortable with opening the lines of communication.
5 – Get out and about!!! Are you sitting in the house watching TV? Are you spending day and night in front of your computer? Stop, relax and get out now. Start to enjoy and appreciate your circle of friends and family. Get a local newsletter or paper with a highlighter and mark the things that interest you to do. Getting out and about does not mean that you have to go out to date. Having some fun will be a great release for you. You can feel better than seeing a psychiatrist at $100 an hour.
5 – I am who I am. Be the person that you know yourself to be. The person that you know yourself to be is the exact same person your ex loves. Don’t be afraid to just be yourself, help your ex realize why they love you. When your perception of who you are changes, the reality you live in will change to match your belief or knowing of your perception. Remember this, your perception is reality.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
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