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Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Learn How To Get Her Back
If rekindling your love is your definite aim it is a must you cut off communication for a while. If you have been together for a while this may be the hardest thing for you. It may kill you at first but it must be done the space will be therapeutic for you both. You both will start to realize how much you miss each other, how much you care, and how much you really mean to each other. It may seem counterproductive but it could be the determining factor in rekindling your love with your ex.
2 – Learn to deal with your emotions and get to a better feeling place. If you want get your ex back you can’t be desperate, clingy, or needy. You must focus on the things that make you feel better no matter what it is. Before you take any action towards getting back together with your ex get to a better feeling place. There is nothing more important that you feel good.
3 – Be free to mingle and flirt. Don’t become a hermit have fun and explore life. You want your ex to know that you are a valuable commodity still. I’m not saying that you should go on a dating extravaganza, that’s if you still want your ex back. It will be a benefit to you by relieving some stress, it will also let your ex girlfriend know that if she doesn’t get on the boat your moving on. It may cause a jealousy plot line or it could make her realize that you are who she is supposed to be with.
4 – Like the movie with John Travolta “Be Cool”. Always be and stay cool, calm and collected if you want your ex back. If you are feeling bad, down, and depressed the results you get will be similar to those feelings. Let her know that all is well in your life and your focused on the things that make you feel good.
5 – Stay looking top notch. How you look plays a major part in how people perceive you and you perceive yourself. Look your best all the time and just because you’re broken up don’t let yourself go. Your ex will see you when you’re looking your best and she may respond very positively.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Learn How to Get Him Back
1 – First you must keep in mind that you are where you are! Your relationship didn’t get where it is today overnight, so you must know that it will not be a overnight process getting back with your ex. Be patient and know things will all work out. If you see your ex around be cordial, give eye contact, and don’t act needy.
2 – Start opening the lines of communication if you already haven’t. If you have be sure that all old baggage from the past has been released. Think of it like you’re traveling up a mountain with a pack strapped to your back full of bricks. You can struggle up with this ridiculously heavy pack or just start getting rid of the bricks. When you start communicating don’t show all of your cards. Leave something to the imagination, be nice maybe flirt if you see him out and about but give off a vibe that he is not the only thing on your mind.
3 – Confidence breeds more confidence, looking your best does something to you. When you can look your best regardless of what is going on in your life, people will realize that you are unaffected by conditions. Like Outkast said keep it “So fresh and so clean clean” no sitting around in jogging suit depressed. Stay fresh, change it up and have fun!
4 – All the nagging and the rehashing of old hurt needs to stop! When you talk to him make him feel good and maybe reminisce on good times. Don’t be shy in giving him compliments every now and then. You want him to realize why he became attached to you in the first place. When you can feel good when your around your ex they will in turn feel good also.
All great relationships I believe start with great friendships. Remember the friendship and the companionship that you once shared. Let your ex know that you will always be friends and work to maintain that friendship. Start to open up to him while still projecting that vibe that you are not needy. Remember how fun life is and how fun life can really be.
By no means is this article a comprehensive guide to getting back with your ex. These are some of the things that I have done and other people I know have. T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for many. If you believe the magic in your relationship can burn bright it can.
If your in need of more guidance visit
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Friday, March 27, 2009
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in Five Steps

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in Five Steps
Just because you are broken up doesn’t mean that it will be for eternity. Like anything in life getting your ex girlfriend back can be learned. You can follow certain steps that can boost your success greatly instead of hoping for the best. I have five steps that can give you the opportunity to let your ex girlfriend know that you still want keep that flame lit. Here is your chance to rekindle your flame with your ex lover in a way that will serve you.
5 – Sitting in the house and sulking will not do you any good, and it definitely won’t help you get your ex girlfriend back. After you have got to a better feeling place and not talked to her for a while. You should then start to reinitiate contact and let know your still there. Be sure to be subtle in letting her know you want to be back with her.
4 – Make email your friend to stay in contact with your ex girlfriend. Keeping the lines of communication open is of great importance. You don’t want to be overbearing and calling her on the phone every day. A good way to keep in touch and be casual is with email messages. Keep it short, sweet, and to the point just say “Hello, how are you?” no love poems please.
3 – Don’t give your ex girlfriend the impression that now that your broke up you’re back on the market. It’s ok to have friends but going out on dates every other night will almost ruin your chances of getting back with your ex girlfriend. Deal with other women at your own risk be careful.
2 – If when you were together you were forgetful of birthdays, anniversaries, or any other dates in her life. Now is the time to recall all of them, you should send a card letting her know you remember these dates. This will let her know that she was an important fixture in your life and she will always be a part of it.
1 – Call occasionally and text even less, Make sure you do these sparingly. Please don’t have any fear in doing either of these. Having doubt and fear will be projected to your ex when you communicate. You must be confident in yourself uncertainty should be avoided in all areas of your life. Just drop in every once and a while letting her know she is still on your mind. Rekindling that flame starts with her knowing that you still there for her.
There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to getting back with your ex girlfriend. You can learn to get your ex girlfriend if you give it some effort. Communication is the key to all great relationships use your communication skills to your advantage. It is so important in the rekindling of the flame that if you are having issues communicating take some courses. It is that important, you have to be able to communicate effectively and not scare her off.
Remember these are just the start up stages to winning your ex back. T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". If you want to get that magic back with your true love check it out.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On

Did you and your ex boyfriend just break up and your asking “how do I get my ex back when he has moved on". Stop sitting on your couch in that funk and go for what you want. I have some tips that may make a difference in you learning how to get your ex back if they have moved on, remember be interested not interesting.
1 – What should be done first to get your ex lover back is helping him to realize how much he still wants you. Things don’t come out of the blue they come out of the oblivious. There are things that you can do to help you from here.
2 – A good thing for you to do is be sure to still be his friend. Be drama free though show him how much fun you really like to have. If you sont know how to have fun learn! Take all of the stress and strain out of your relationship and the happiness may return.
3 – Be kind, cordial, and sweet at all times letting him know that you’re the one that is almost out of reach. I’m not saying play games or try to get in his head. In my experience people want what they cannot have, His desire for you may grow while you are going through this.
4 – You should not be showing all your cards and acting needy, but at the same time still show a little affection. You should be playing a little hard to get and having your own life. Get out with friends maybe get out and flirt. Remember don’t go overboard if you want to be back with your ex.
5 – You are not desperate so do not act like it. If you act in that way you will further push your ex away. This is so important, know one wants to be with someone who can’t stand to be with themselves. Let it be known that if need be you can move on joyously.
6 – If you catch your ex looking at you or you feel him looking at you give him a glance out the corner of your eye. He will know that you are paying attention to him with a glance like that. It will be sort of mysterious leaving him wondering “Can I still have her?”
7 – Ever so subtly let him know that you remember the good times you spent together. The good times will help him remember all of the fun times you and your ex spent together. Be free from reminiscing on the times that were not so great. Help him to get in line with how great it was to be with you.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space
- Be easy; don’t start chasing him and blowing up his phone. Play hard to get and don’t let him the space he needs affect you. You know you still love him and 9 times out of 10 he knows it too. Make sure that you’re now ex knows that you’re not losing a thing, and even if this space becomes permanent your life will go on.
- If you know that you’re ex boyfriend is still sweet on you, it may advantageous for you to not just cut off all communication with him. You can send him a quick text, a short phone call, or a brief email. Let him know that he is still in your thoughts but at the same time that you are living life. Do not overwhelm him he did say he wanted space but let your presence still be felt.
- If everything plays how you intend it to go, your ex will start to miss you, his interest will rise, and he may even want to talk to your more about the good times. Leave the bad times in the past and focus on the good times of past, present, and future. You can rekindle your love with your now ex lover and you don’t want lose focus on the love that you still share.
- If you’re now ex boyfriend is not getting the hint and is acting non responsive. Maybe he does not want to proceed with the relationship or maybe he just needs more space. Be aware of the vibes and the signs that he is giving you. Be sure to know if he is just stringing you along, if there is more to the situation, or if rekindling your love is really on his mind.
- Now if you are getting all the signs you want to see it may be time to wear your heart on your sleeve again. If your ex wants to rekindle the flame opening up is the only way. If you want a relationship to be healthy, communication must flow like a river. Don’t force it let things go gradually and naturally become.
By no means is this article a comprehensive guide to getting back with your ex. These are some of the things that I have done and other people I know have. T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for many. If you believe the magic in your relationship can burn bright it can.
If your in need of more guidance visit
makeupmagic.tk
and to learn even more about this topic
rekindleourlove.tk
Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Monday, March 23, 2009
How Can I Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend
If you want to get to do what you feel is the impossible, and get back with your ex girlfriend. Let me give you some guidance to help you get the ball a rolling.
- The universe is full of infinite possibilities don’t count yourself out of a second, third, or even fourth chance. It is not impossible that you get back with your ex girlfriend. Start asking yourself “what do I truly want”? If you still love her and feel she is the one for you go for it. You be the change in the relationship you want to see. If you are trying to get back with you ex for any other reason may blow up in your face.
- Desperation leaves you feeling in a place of powerlessness. To move up the emotional ladder you must feel better now. Don’t try to make huge jumps choose thoughts that feel a little better. If your main concern is “how can I get back together with my ex girlfriend”? It’s high time you take control of your emotions. Focus and get to the point where nothing is more important than that you feel good.
- Make sure you are controlling your emotions!!! This is so important that it got mentioned again, Be sure you are free from pitying and belittling yourself. Stop being so needy or you may cause your ex to repel you like a magnet placed with their like poles together.
- Minimize communication while keeping them open. It may be over and you really might not want to even talk to your ex, but keep it cordial. You shouldn’t be initiating the conversation, if you must talk to her keep it cool. If you feel you must call, you must call only to say “what’s up” and enthusiastically see how she’s doing then get off the phone. Make sure you keep it short, sweet, and to the point.
- The most important thing in my knowing is that you internalize that nothing is more important than that I feel good. Stop focusing on what went wrong in your relationship with you ex. Focus on feeling good and try this trick picture that 5 years have passed and you and your ex girlfriend are back together. What are you and your now present girlfriend doing? Are you engaged? Are you married? Have you and your girlfriend moved into your own home. All is well just trust that this is so everything will turn out for the advancement of you.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
68 Seconds of Pure Thought
This is a tool created in response to the Abraham-Hicks explanation of the power of 68 seconds of pure thought.
Before you hit play, pick a desire; something you would like to manifest.
- imagine that desire is contained in the indigo circle
- focus your attention on the blue circle until it fades
This version does the trick. But if you want the original HD version, PayPal a donation to sixtyeightseconds at gmail dot com and I'll send it to you.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me How To Tell
You could jump directly into getting back with your ex because of the signs. But is that the best course of action. Being calm, cool, and collected will most likely get you your desired outcome. Rather than displaying a vibe of neediness. The odds are great that the display of non neediness you have shown thus far has brought your ex’s renewed interest in you.
Most times when you’re going through a break up it is natural to feeling of loss. It can be bordering sometimes on mourning. Most likely your ex will miss you no matter what if you have been apart for any length of time. With all the shared memories emotions can run wildly. Be free of regrets because if it was not for where you have been you would not be who you are. If you are wondering “does my ex want to get back with me?” it’s a good chance your ex is on the same page.
Some of the time when your ex shows some interest your ex could be playing games. They may try to use your love for them to manipulate you for attention and never intend to get back with you. So look for signs that your ex’s offerings are genuine. Watch out they may be trying to get revenge for a perceived wrong or dealing with you to pass time. This is why it’s important that you stay cool, calm and collected. Never allow anyone to take the power that is your birthright. Focus on the outcome you want and reject the reality of others and substitute it for your own.
It is common if you find yourself wondering “does my ex want to get back with me?” In my reality, to get the results you desire you must feel good before you take action. If your ex does not want to get back with you, Keep displaying a vibe of non neediness and release resistance and attachment from the situation. Saying “I am where I am and it’s OK” will help to give you peace. Remember know one has the power to control how you feel except you.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Thursday, March 19, 2009
5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

Love is a bond that needs to be fed and nourished just like a beautiful flower in your garden. In order for that beautiful flower to bloom, grow, and thrive you must tend to your garden regularly. A break up can cause great stress, strain, and frustration if you allow it. I have had relationships go sour but it is my knowing that they ended because I didn’t tend to my garden. You may be thinking I want to get back at my ex. Now I’m not talking about intending harm to your ex in any shape, form or fashion. You must be the change you want to see. I am here to offer you a little guidance with 5 tips to get your ex back. They will only be of service to though only if you use them.
1 – Show your strength. It is imperative that you radiate a vibe of non neediness. Are you begging your ex? Are you clinging to your ex? Are you radiating the vibe of neediness? You must move from desperation to joy, but it must be done in moderation. Feel better little by little and regain the power you have always had. Your ex will start to notice something in you when you release attachment.
2 – Keep communication scarce. “How can I get back with my ex”, you may ask that because cutting communication seems counterproductive. If you want to rekindle your love a break will provide time to evaluate. You can clear your mind and use the time to refocus. It can give your ex the opportunity to realize what a diamond in the rough you are.
3 – Turn into a gymnast. I’m not telling you to learn how to do splits or jumping on a high horse. I am saying “Be Flexible”, and stop making so many demands and start to go more with the flow. Don’t tell your ex be here to pick up your stuff tomorrow! and if you live together don’t tell her to move out. Become a Listener and more empathetic, when your ex sees you like this she will start to feel more comfortable with opening the lines of communication.
5 – Get out and about!!! Are you sitting in the house watching TV? Are you spending day and night in front of your computer? Stop, relax and get out now. Start to enjoy and appreciate your circle of friends and family. Get a local newsletter or paper with a highlighter and mark the things that interest you to do. Getting out and about does not mean that you have to go out to date. Having some fun will be a great release for you. You can feel better than seeing a psychiatrist at $100 an hour.
5 – I am who I am. Be the person that you know yourself to be. The person that you know yourself to be is the exact same person your ex loves. Don’t be afraid to just be yourself, help your ex realize why they love you. When your perception of who you are changes, the reality you live in will change to match your belief or knowing of your perception. Remember this, your perception is reality.
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Jusme
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back
There are many different gurus, motivational speakers, writers, and mentors who all have the answer to your break up needs. I belive though that being in touch with yourself and using your own guidance system will take you far. Knowone else is in your specific situation and can not clearly guide you. The power to heal your relationship is within you.
If you are becoming obsessed with the love you think you have lost constantly asking “what should I do to get my ex back?” let me offfer a little light at the end of the tunnel. To help you in rekindling love with that special someone.
Stop trying to use jedi mind tricks this is of the utmost importance. So many individuals after a break up try to manipulate their ex one way or the other, how is not important. It can cause relief but the point is to get to a better feeling place.
Focus on things that you want to do, be, and have instead of faking that you are happy and you are really miserable. When you can get into alignment with the things you truly desire you have no choice to move towards the love that is meant for you.
Playing games will soon backfire and not turn out as you planned. Don't lose yourself in the breakup and forget how desirable you really are. Your happiness is not dependent on the actions of anyone else. Your emotions are yours and not anyone else. Using your jedi mind tricks may get you some results but more likely than not you will be sadly mistaken.
Don't let the outside stimuli dictate how you should react. It's ok to be mad but don't let anger consume you. A breakup may have you very emotional and thats ok. Even if your hurt or mad the fact you are still wondering, "What should I do to get my ex back?" should say to you that I am ready to forgive them and myself. All is never lost you can still be with them if you choose.
How have you been acting? If you were your ex would you want to spend time with you or talk to you? Do you curse and act a fool whenever you see each other? Do you prank call your ex? Do you argue every time you see each other? If any of the above take place please stop now. Learn to control yourself and to be cordial in every situation. I know I know this is easier said than done but just give it your all.
“What should I do to get my ex back?” You should be calm, cool and collected in all of your interactions. Make this apart of your being not just with your ex but in all of life's day to day annoyances. Give your ex the opportunity to miss you and to see and remember why they love you in the first place. Your chances of getting with your ex will be better than ever.
This is just my experience and feelings on winning your Ex back. You could call these the initial steps or just some frienly tips. Some of these ideas have come from someone named T 'Dub' Jackson. He is helping many people to get their true love back
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". It may be able to work magic for you!
If your in need of more guidance visit
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
How to get back together with my ex in 3 steps
After a break up it's easy to step into a depressed frame of mind. The feeling of loss is really no different losing a loved one. When faced with breakup some people turn to begging to get there ex back. But will begging make things better? 9 times out of 10 what this approach will do is chase your ex even further away.
If you are thinking of calling your ex and your all depressed. A better course of action is to get to a better feeling place before you call ex. Don't call your ex with your sob stories and don't stay in the house all day crying. Even better try the 3 simple steps and you can answer the question you keep asking yourself "How do I get back together with my ex?"
Step 1 How to get back with my ex; I AM WHERE I AM
You have to accept that it's over FOR NOW, The key part of is it's just for now. Right now you need to bring down the tension and stress in the situation. Taking a break and accept where you are at. Start the process of letting go of attachments. Now I'm not say moving on and finding another mate, just get in the state where you can at least consider there may be someone else that is aligned more with what I want in a relationship. If it is meant to be you and your ex will rekindle the flame.
Step 2 How to get back with your ex; STOP CONTACT WITH EX
Stop calling your ex for the time being. All contact should be cut to make for some breathing room. It might seem like this is the opposite of your goal. What your actions are stating actually is that you have moved on and that all is well with you. this will allow you and your ex to evaluate what the both of you want. Also you will be able to assess the relationships perceived value. Time apart will be the best time and a catalyst for you both to realize how important you are to each other.
Step 3 How to get back with your ex; PLAN FOR THE FUTURE ENCOUNTER
After you have done the two steps above and are in a good feeling place, you should have a plan. You should plan on when you should meet, where your going to meet, and why you want to be with your ex. This is going to allow you a better idea if you want to pursue this relationship or move on. You will be able to know exactly what direction you wants to go.
"How to get back with my ex?" It may be more to this than meets the eye. The 3 steps above are just a starting point and will improve your chance of winning your ex back.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Monday, March 16, 2009
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Sunday, March 15, 2009
The Vibrational Universe
We all are the creators of our experience and what you put out is what you get back. Which by popular culture has been coined the law of attraction or "The Secret".
Everything we do has its basis in vibration. Our eye interprets vibration and gives the illusion that our eyes actually see the physical world. This is the same for all of our five senses including our intuition or sixth sense. In the universe in which we live there is no such thing as exclusion.
When you want something in life, if you would just listen to your inner self and the world around you would hear "Yes, it is done I love you!" we must learn to be selfish. You must focus on good feeling desires and the positive aspects of ourselves and others.
No one really has any control over your experience except you.
Unconditional love is finding a way to allow others to flow their energy in the way in which they choose. You must be free of using anything as your excuse to not let you flow your energy. You have to want so much to be the love that is you, that you’re going to find a way to look at whatever it is your observing apart from the conditions presented.
You may be wondering "What does this have to do with my relationships?" well frankly I must respond EVERYTHING! To attract or create the life you prefer be it health, wealth, or your relationships. There is nothing more important than that you feel good! A lot of people do not realize that emotions means energy in motion. When you feel good you can only attract good results, but when you are feeling bad you attract those results which you really do not want.
FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS on the success that is already yours! I am so appreciative of Jerry and Esther Hicks for helping me to remember my own divinity.
Much Love Too All,
Jusme
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Saturday, March 14, 2009
Letting go of what others do
"I don't get to choose for you, you get to choose for you. I know enough about you to know that you will always make the right choices for you. I'm going to do my very best to feel good about the choices that you make. Not because I'm going to try to agree with your choices, but because I'm not going to allow your variety of choices keep me from my connection to who i really am. I want to demonstrate for you what connection is to source. It is my only wish for you that you get connected to source first, then follow through with any other plans that you have."
I think that this is one of the most freeing and powerful statements in all our relationships. Allowing others to be who they choose to be without are self imposed conditions. Love is timeless and unconditional, if we truly love another we must let go of our preconceived notions of who they should be.
How to get an Ex back
There is no reason that you can’t get back with your ex unless it is self imposed. The first step is aligning with your true self and learning from the mistakes you made in the relationship. Quickly take an inventory of the events and situations and make the necessary changes to your life. Give yourself a chance to grow from your relationship. When you get back with your ex you can be sincerely better or if you move on you can be a better lover than in previous relationships.
You may have broken up because of one thing that happened or it can be an accumulation of hurts and emotions that your ex just got tired of. No matter what the reason of your break up your power is in the now. From where you stand you can effortlessly get her back if you focus on feeling better NOW! If you change your feelings and thoughts now things will be much better in the long run. Don’t waste your time trying to figure out exactly what went wrong it will drive you crazy. Release your resistance and allow what you want.
Next be sure to radiate vibes of a non needy nature. It’s easy to feel that you cannot live without your ex. You must be strong and make a point to yourself that all is well, and say “I am where I am”. Being strong and confident will most definitely give you a great chance of getting back with your ex.
Making an attempt to burn your ex or using a jealousy plot line with her will most likely blow up in your face. These things and any like them will move you from your goal not closer. You want your ex to know that you can live on your own and you can release all attachment yet still be cordial. Forgive yourself and forgive your ex and be at peace with where you are. I so want you to realize that you are a center of divine operation and divine operation means expansion into something better than has gone before.
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Friday, March 13, 2009
Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Have you just experienced a tough break up? You may be thinking, “How can I get my ex boyfriend back?” all of the time. Relationships vary from one to the next. So all break up vary as well. But there are actions you can take to help draw him back in your experience.
Please stay nice.
You might be saying “How can I be nice to him after all that has happened?” but it’s something that must be done. Stop the nagging, complaining, and unpleasant acts or gestures. If he can not feel comfortable around you he will not be a match to you and you may be the inspiration to move on.
It’s not your goal to push him out of your life is it? Be like a beautiful picture of art peaceful and pleasant to look at and to be around. Be sincere and appreciate the good times you have had with him.
“Can I pretend to be nice and make it work?” all I can say is fake it till you make it. If it is your desire to be with him do what you must. But you should make sure that you want to be with him or are your desires leading you to someone else.
If faking it till you make it doesn’t work for you may really need to evaluate your true feelings? Look inside yourself to see if this is something that has been recurring throughout your relationship, when you were together.
The past and the future are not here and the present is a gift. We are living in evolving now’s so that is where your power is. Let him know subtly how much you appreciate him and you will no longer take him for granted. Make sure you are doing it for you and not for a reaction.
If you can get to a better feeling place you’ll get better results from your actions. The worse you feel the worse the results you get from your actions.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?
This can seem like an insurmountable obstacle this is where you focus on the things you want to be, do, or have. Start to enjoy life again, you are wonderful and you must know it. Once you get in line with your passions in life and follow your bliss. Everyone including your ex boyfriend will start to see how wonderful you are because you have.
Can I get my ex boyfriend by playing tricks?
What you put out it what you get back if you choose to be deceitful you will only get more of the same yourself. Your desire is to be back with your ex boyfriend right? You don’t want to be sitting wondering how can I get back with my ex, all because of deception
Can I get my ex boyfriend back making him jealous?
It can and will have the same destructive as deception. It will blow up in your face. Are going out with the intention of companionship and fun? Then you should go for it. But if you’re going out with the intention of creating jealousy in another you’re in for a uphill battle good luck.
This is just a starting point and not the definitive end all guide of getting your ex back. There are many great people to go to for help on the topic. One of them is T 'Dub' Jackson who authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic of Making Up". Maybe it can make magic for you!
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Thursday, March 12, 2009
We Are Family
We consider every single person in our society to be married to everyone else. We are all one family, even though we may also have discrete families.
We understand that the members of our discrete family, no matter who they're with are simply with another member of the family; and that's why our children, when they are in your're eyes very very young can still go wandering off, and do what they wish to do and no matter who they're with we know that they're simply with another member of the family.
We are in one family, we are in one relationship, we are in one marriage.
Many choose not to look at life this way. I feel the reason for many things that plague society come down to this. To do something positive is to do something integrative, To do something negative is to do something separative. Maybe this can be of help to you on your journey.
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Jusme
How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend
Obsessing over the reality that you face will only make you feel worse and worse. If you want your ex boyfriend back focus getting to a better feeling place. Find release from all stress and tension which most likely helped the break up along.
So, How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend, you ask?
When your relationship seems like it is in the graveyard don’t spend a lot of time asking what you did wrong. Focus on your positive aspects and what can you do to make yourself better in every relationship. If you are asking "How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend", then focus on how you can be a better partner. Then choose your action accordingly.
Whatever caused the break up it doesn’t matter it’s not your job to place blame outside yourself. Take accountability for your own part to play in the relationship. Do not think about where you have been in your relationship, but where you’re going. Stop blaming each other because your pushing yourself away from your ex.
It is of great importance slow down and evaluate where you are at. What exactly do you want? Who exactly do you want it with? These are the questions that will let you know how to proceed.
You will have to start trusting yourself sometime. I suggest you do it now! You can get back together with your ex I assure you. You must be willing and ready to make the necessary changes to yourself that you want to see. You have a great life that you may be feeling bad about right now, due to your focus of attention. REFOCUS!
Action is necessary if you want to get back with your ex. Get to a state of knowing that you can have your ex back. And before you take any action feel better first, oh and do it NOW!
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Much Love Too All,
Jusme
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
10 vows of success for relationship success & more

Success is success no matter if your talking in a relationship, your career, or your health. I read a book a while ago by Og Mandino which changed my life named The Greatest Salesman In The World. I adopted these vows from that book but have used them successfully in my own life and feel compelled to share. These are the principles from the book I adopted and turned into affirmations. They can be used as a nightly affirmation, But they must be acted on to see the success you like. These are not just passive positive affirmations, think of them more as positive active affirmations.
Vow 1 - I am FREE from pitying and belittling myself NOW!!!
Vow 2 - I always greet the dawn with a map!!!
Vow 3 - Always will I bathe my days in the golden glow of enthusiasm!!!
Vow 4 - I am always agreeable to every living soul NOW!!!
Vow 5 - Always will I seek the seed of triumph in every adversity!!!
Vow 6 - I am FREE from performing at less than my best NOW!!!
Vow 7 - Always will I throw my whole self into the task at hand!!!
Vow 8 - I am FREE from waiting and hoping for opportunity to embrace me, I embrace opportunity NOW
Vow 9 - Always will I examine, each night my deed of the fading day!!!
Vow 10 - Always will I maintain contact through prayer with my creator!!!
Please bathe these vows in a golden glow of enthusiasm when you say them and when you act on them. If you like these vows check out Og Mandino's book. It is a classic that can add great wisdom and benefits to your experience.
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Jusme
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
How can I Get my Ex Back with a Confident Attitude
It may be a difficult to be bright and optimistic when your ex just told you “It’s over!” but it is possible. Many relationship experts believe that finding a better feeling thought can change your entire well being. Finding your own confidence will take your life to new heights here are some insights that can answer “how can I get my ex back?”
Maintain your confident state – Even though the break may be hard think more positive thoughts little by little. Get to a place where you are your most confident and ride that wave from this point on. Be strong and take back your power and don’t stay depressed. Control yourself to be in control of the outside stimuli. Give your ex boyfriend or girlfriend the chance to remember why they miss you and that you can make it with or without them. Even if being without your ex is not in your plans.
Become a more social being – Remember your mother saying “birds of a feather flock together?” and you didn’t believe her. Start to show your appreciation for life, your friends, and your family. Everyone will see you in a light maybe they have never seen you in before. You can help your ex realize why they love you and letting you go is maybe not the way to go. Get out and about, have fun, and meet and greet as many people as you can. Appreciate the fact you can still have great interactions without your ex and this will help your ex see the positive aspects in you again.
Keep it looking good – The psychology of clothes and appearances is understood by very few. Clothes constitute the most important part of the embellishment which every person must have in order to feel self reliant, hopeful, and enthusiastic. Your body language, appearance and your tone account for a tremendous part of your communication. Most are unaware that the words you speak are not as important as the way you move your body and the way you look. Even though you’re broken up do not let yourself go, Keep it looking good. Know that clothes effect not only other people but you as well, oh and keep it looking good.
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Jusme
Monday, March 9, 2009
6 tips to be enthusiastic after a breakup
The first stimuli of enthusiasm is doing work in which you enjoy. The fact is if you are doing something you love your not working at all.
The second stimuli of enthusiasm is environment. You must be mindful of where you come in contact with others. Be around individuals who are enthusiastic and optimistic.
The third stimuli of enthusiasm is financial success. A feeling of financial success can make you feel on top of the world. You should allow more income into your experience.
The fourth stimuli of enthusiasm is good health. Get started on a work out plan, start meditating, or add some better foods for you in your diet. To give your body a greater feeling of well being.
The fifth stimuli of enthusiasm is knowledge. You can feel a great since of enthusiasm by gaining some knowledge from books or going out to learn something new. Another great source of enthusiasm pertaining to knowledge is serving others in a helpful manner which can just feel exhilarating.
The sixth and last(at least I will talk about here) stimuli of enthusiasm is good clothes, body language, and voice Tonality. All the other sources of enthusiasm are really self explanatory except for this one. Starting with good clothes the psychology of of clothes is understood by very few. For this reason this is why it should be explained a little bit. Clothes constitute the most important part of the of the embellishment which every person must nust have in order to feel self reliant, hopeful,and enthusiastic. Clothes effect not only other people but you as well.
Next lets talk about body language there are 3 modes of communication. you verbal words account for 7% of your communication interactions. The vocal aspect of it accounts for 38% and that includes tone, pitch, and volume.
The last mode is visual cues which includes the previously mentioned appearances and also body language which accounts for 55%. The words you are actually speaking are not as important as how your message is conveyed and displayed. This is a big tip that can help you for sure. Try this experiment, when you are feeling a little down put a great big smile on your face. See don't you feel better I promise. You can influence your body, Changing your body language and your mood will follow.
These are some of things that can help you to your enthusiasm. These tips can help you regardless if your going through a break up, looking for a mate, or in a relationship. There are many more and with a little research you can find more. I believe these are some that will bring you leaps and bounds from where you are. Do it now whenever you ask for something it is given. Only you have the power to change your circumstances... only you.
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Jusme
Saturday, March 7, 2009
7 steps to cure your money diseases in your relationship
Step 1.Fatten Up That Wallet - Pay yourself first above every one else. Set aside at least 10% of your income. It may be hard at first and seem like such a great sacrifice but it is only at first. Money comes quicker to those who save.
Step 2.Control Your Wallet - That which we call a necessity usually are not really. If you don't watch it your necessary expenditures will grow unless you protest to it. It's your duty to always live on a budget to gratify needs that are really necessary.
Step 3.Make Your Wallet Multiply - It's not good enough just to save, you must put your saving to work for you. As your savings increases and it will very quickly don't go out and start giving away your slaves, Who will work for you? Also as your earnings increase invest your extra earnings as well in good investments.
Step 4.Guide Your Wallet From Loss - You must have security in your investments. Only invest where the money you invest is safe where it may be reclaimed if desired. Don't look for the get rich quick schemes just look for a fair profit. Also you would not go to the stock broker asking about real estate or vice versa now would you? Consult with wise wise men who are truly experts in their field.
Step 5.Make your Home A Profitable Investment - Owning a home can provide so many benefits and savings. Owning your own home will reduce your expenditures. For example using solar energy on your home or growing your own food to name just a couple. If you already own your own home brainstorm ways to make it more of an investment.
Step 6.Insure Your Future Income - Always have investments that are specifically for the long term. They should still be able to be retrieved when desired. It is of great importance to insure a future for old age and for your family.
Step 7. Increase Your Ability To Allow Greater Income - You must be in a better feeling place on issues involving money. Try saying to yourself "I am free of resistance and only allow that which I want.? You must have a strong desire to allow more income, it must be simple and definite. Ever heard the saying "Just kiss the situation!" which means keep it simple silly. Cultivate your own powers to study and become wiser.
It is not what you make it is what you keep. Remember a part of all you allow is yours to keep every dollar you save becomes a slave to you. It should not be less than one tenth of your income, but save as much as you can afford. This will help you cure your money diseases in no time if you stick to it. If your in a relationship or broken up, like Nike just do it.
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Jusme
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Why Don't You Just Love Me?
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Sunday, March 1, 2009
Is It My Fault?
What do you want and when will you allow it to be???
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