I recently started a poll on Squidoo and I think it's something that everybody should think about or at least consider. The question is do you believe there is a difference between being in love with somebody or simply just loving somebody. I have talked about this subject with many friends and exes and I always get mixed emotions. My opinion is that there is no such thing as falling in love. Just because a person is no longer right for you doesn't mean you can just fall out of love with them. How can someone you once devoted yourself to be someone now that you hate or have fell out of love with. I’m not saying that significant others don’t do things that you consider not pleasing. Love is something that is timeless and unconditional. Even if the aspects of the person your with or used to be with seem to be different. Your focus has just shifted and the one you love is still there beneath the surface of what you don’t like. I feel moving on and not wanting to be with them doesn't mean the love is gone. It means your attention is focused on the aspects of your mate (or ex mate) that are not to your liking. Now this is just my truth, All truth is true but are only true for the people who believe that their true. It's all about what works for you. We must replace truth with works. I ask you please do what works for you. If you want to vote on the poll and Let Your Voice Be Heard
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Much Love Too All,

Jusme

What Can I Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Are you feeling like you need your ex back and what can I do to draw him back to me? Is this the feeling you you’ve been having? Is the only thing on your mind what can I do to get my boyfriend back. Here is a bit of guidance that may be able to help you rekindle that old flame and get back with your ex boyfriend.

At this point in time it is of utmost importance saving or rekindling your Love, which is what led you here am I right? Struggling and being too anxious will make it near impossible to get the outcome that you want. You’re creating the separation between you and your ex boyfriend. You must get to a place where you can be happy with exactly where you are.

Are you always calling your ex? Are you always sending him emails or texts to him constantly? Are you turning into a border line stalker? If you are any of the above STOP NOW! If you want to know what can I do to get my ex boyfriend back, then make those actions things of the past.

So what can I do to get my ex boyfriend back? See if this bit of guidance can be of help to you.

You need to wipe your own slate clean. Start by focusing on some things that give you great joy. And don’t worry about getting in touch with your ex boyfriend. Some time apart will do both of you some good. Stop beating the drum of all the old woes of your freshly ended relationship. REFOCUS your attention on the aspects of life that please you. This may be a hurdle for you but reach for relief and look for thoughts that feel better.

As time passes your ex’s perspective will shift and he will start to evaluate his feelings about you. Now that you have removed yourself from the situation he will start wondering what you are doing and how do you feel about him now. He may have started to really miss you, which cannot be accomplished when you have not given him some space.

You must remember that you must follow your own joy. If he is meant to be in your experience he will come back and share in your joys. If you still want to know “What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back”, now you have a few tools and a basic understanding of how some common mistakes can be avoided. If you take this little bit of guidance you can balance out your own life and allow your ex to realize he loves you in the first place.

Be easy about all of this and remember to focus on the positive aspects of your own life experience, be it real or imagined. Give things time and allow the outcome you want to present its self to you, in the best and fastest way possible. You can be happy again and don’t have to ask “what can I do to get my ex boyfriend back”

Much love too all,

.

Jusme

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Jusme

What Can I do To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?

Most guys beat themselves up saying “where did it go wrong, can I get her back” when it’s finally over. They start nit picking at every little thing that went wrong and visualizing every other possible outcome. A plan might be attempted to apologize or try to do something to win the heart of his woman.

Most guys are shot down for trying too hard. But the majority of the time they don’t have all the details to why they specifically broke it off. Women are very much in tuned with their emotions and it could be that it’s been many different emotional cues and not a specific incident. You can drive yourself crazy trying to find out what did I do wrong.

You must isolate yourself from the situation. Constantly arguing and rehashing old hurts is not the answer to getting your ex girlfriend back. You must REFOCUS your attention on the things that please you in your life. Get out and start to explore where you live or you can try writing a list of all the things that you’ve always wanted to be, do, and have. And start making definite plans to accomplish these things on your brand new list.

Be patient and relax about all this and allow your positive changes to manifest in your life. Some time away from your ex and focusing on your own joy will bring magic.

What this will do is give you a chance to put things in prospective for you. Just allow the changes from your list to become who you are. After some time, you may be in a better position win the heart of your ex or you may be ready to experience the world and move on.

Is the flame for your ex still burning? Or are you ready to taste a different flavor? If that flame is still burning bright, maybe you should see if her flame has been fanned out and how she’s feeling.

Your power is in the now and once you have got yourself in a better feeling place. Now you can be blunter and can now act on your impulses to get your lady back. Please DO NOT BEG you must realize your own value and know that with or without her you still have so much to offer any woman.

Follow your bliss in your own life and play things cool with your ex girlfriend. She will wonder what’s got you so happy and if you worked on your list a spent a good amount of time away from her she may be missing you as well. Show her and everyone else that your happiness is not dependent upon anyone outside of yourself.

The best thing for you is to know that what is best for you will happen exactly how it’s supposed to. Be easy and discover how lovely life can be and if she wants to share in your joy so be it if not move on. Your life will only get better and in the not too distant future. You will look back on where you’re at now and say “how could I ever have felt so bad, my wife is so beautiful!!!”Don’t over analyze things you can still get you ex girlfriend back.

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Much love too all,

Jusme

What's up world it's your boy Jusme! I am starting this blog to help out all the people out there going through problems of the heart. I have alot of friends who ask me for advice so I decided "hey why dont I help as many people as I can!!! ". So to all no matter what your dealing with and how difficult it may seem, everything will be alright I promise you.

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